Do not lecture me about “White Privilege”. First, I did not ask or choose to be born to
Caucasian parents. It was the luck of the draw and has not gotten me much if
anything in the ‘privilege’ department anyway, right from day one. As long as I
can remember, and that is from about age four to this day, three months short
of my seventy-fourth birthday, I have lived mainly in ethnically mixed
neighborhoods and followed a lifestyle very much the same as did my neighbors,
be they Black, Latino, Asian, American Indian or ‘white’. (By the way we are all immigrants, even the American Indians who came from Asia eons ago, so lay off that bit too.) We shopped at the
same stores and I often drove cars older than theirs. They usually had a larger
TV and bought more ‘stuff’ for their kids than I did. While I was employed by
the US
government, I worked alongside people of all races and ethnicity and never got
a promotion or an honor/award ahead of any of them. Upon retirement, they got
the same pensions for their grades as I did.
Yes, I got a college education. That happened simply because
I was a decent student and made better grades than most of my contemporaries so
that I was valedictorian of my high school class and when I finally started college,
four years later, I got a scholarship and a Pell Grant which paid for most of
my schooling. I also worked twenty hours a week the last year while doing my graduate
work. I completed work for both a Bachelor’s and a Master’s degree in four
years and several summer sessions and went to work the Monday after completing requirements
for the latter on the previous Friday. I
had no time or money for a trip to the continent or even a short vacash to Ft
Lauderdale or a Colorado
resort in the summer. If I had any advantage there, it may have been that my
parents were also college educated—although much of their lifestyle and
behavior did not indicate that—and that they read to me when I was small and
encouraged—with however much force they felt necessary—that I excel in my
school work. There is nothing to say a
parent of any minority child could not do the same and many do,
The fallacy of the whole “White Privilege” meme is that people
of western European ancestry are deemed somehow unfairly gifted so they are all
automatically upper middle class or higher and can always go to college, usually
get a ‘position’ (as opposed to a mere job!) in a family owned firm and live
the life of Riley. In the 1950s they had the darling little house with the
white picket fence, the 2.5 blonde and adorable children, the spotty dog in the
front yard and all the latest and nicest gadgets and labor saving devices in
their home. They got a new car every year and ---well, I almost gag over this
blatantly false depiction. I was old
enough in the 1950s to look around and know just how false this was! At least
75% of the Caucasian Americans were several notches down the scale from that.
From Colonial times on there have always been those who have
come to be called “white trash.” (1) They make up a majority of the Caucasian
people resident in the US and have always been a very slight notch, if any,
above the people of various other races and ethnicity, most of whom they worked
alongside and suffered the same hardships and ill-treatment. Even then there
were only a few who either came to the New World with money and aristocratic
backgrounds or had the kind of clever and manipulative power to come out on top
of every deal until they had bought and fought their way to that upper tier.
The rest had little or no property, earned their meager living by working for
the wealthy folk and struggled for every morsel and bit of gain. The so called
American Dream has always been a lie—yes, it was possible to rise above your station of birth and some did but it
was not probable—not then, now or ever.
This very situation is why we are where we are today. This
group ,which Spiro Agnew labeled “the Silent Majority” have been at best ignored,
and at worst, insulted, maligned and taken advantage of by the “Establishment”
who look coldly and condescendingly down their noses at this “basket of deplorables.”
They’re the unwashed, inbred, drunk or drugged up redneck, hillbilly, white
trash, who have never been considered a minority, deserving of all care and
goodness since they were so badly damaged and deprived by the “Privileged” Whites.
It does not matter whether those in power are leftist or right wing, Democrat
or Republican, Liberal or Conservative, They are really just so far apart they
bump asses on the backside of the political spectrum circle!! A huge group of
their fellow humans who are accidentally also of western European stock do not
count.
Anyway, in the campaign of 2016, this mass finally got damn
good and mad, sick and tired of everybody cutting in ahead of them on the line
to anything. (2) One candidate took notice of them and told them—true
or false—exactly what they wanted to hear. The major part of this group are the people
who have gotten their hands dirty, dug in the mines, kept the trains running,
worked the assembly lines, toiled on small or larger farms to feed the nation
and much of the world, and struggled along without ever saying very much. They
just did all the bloody work!! Traditionally they voted Democrat as their parents
and grandparents had because allegedly the Democrats were “the party of the
people.” That hasn’t worked so well the last few decades because this mass is
no darling for the peace, love and everything-free-for-everyone group. Maybe
people of color, exotic refugees from foreign places and the ever-growing
welfare class have more pizzazz, sex appeal or just make better poster kids.
And damn it, I totally understand where this disaffected
mass were coming from. Yes, they’ve been sold a bill of goods and it is not
going to have the happy ending they hoped for so they will still be mad in
four, forty or probably even more years. They will keep trying to find a fixer
for their plight.
WTF is “white privilege” anyway? Is it just being too
flappin’ dumb to somehow get in there and get yours? Is it some kind of
conspiracy or black helicopter plot to keep the white trash in their place?
None of them know the whys but they have revolted this one time and if even a
little bit of it works, they will be
back. Count on it. Meanwhile you can take
this guilt trip you are trying to put on me and many others and shove it right
up your collective ass. A hell of a lot of us are NOT going to buy it. If this
life is privilege, you can have it. Maybe next incarnation we will all return
in some other racial or ethnic form and see how that works. This current one
sure sucks.
Footnotes:
1. White Trash by Nancy Isenberg ISBN 9780670785971, Viking Books
2. Strangers in Their Own Land by Arlie Russell Hochschild ISBN 9781620972250 The New Press
Footnotes:
1. White Trash by Nancy Isenberg ISBN 9780670785971, Viking Books
2. Strangers in Their Own Land by Arlie Russell Hochschild ISBN 9781620972250 The New Press
I could not have said it better! I too had a dream to go to college, but until I'd worked and saved for fifteen years, I could not afford it. I next paid for my daughter's education, and although I had a degree, seemed to go to the back of the line in the job hunt. I'll stop here as I've often said, "I know my place, and it's at the back of the line." So, like you, I'd like to know what the heck is 'white privilege' anyhow.
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